Coaching
The other door.
Some people arrive needing to speak. This is where that is the work, and not the thing we get underneath.
Everything else in this house is silent. You are not asked how you are, and you are not asked to explain yourself, because the body says it more accurately than you would. That is the whole design of it.
This is the exception, and it is deliberate. Some things do need to be said out loud, to one person, without it becoming a story you have to keep telling. Coaching here is conversation with a direction: what you are carrying, what it is costing, and what you intend to do differently.
Same practitioner. Same discretion. Nothing you say is written down, repeated, or referred to again unless you raise it yourself.
The silent work was not learned from a certificate. This was, and deliberately so. Kilian holds the International Postgraduate Diploma in Coaching and Leadership Development (Level 7), awarded by OTHM, completed at the Jay Shetty Certification School. Two different kinds of knowing, and it is worth being clear about which is which.
Who it is for
People who are good at being fine.
It is for the ones who run things, hold things together, and have nobody to say the unedited version to. Not because they lack people, but because too many people depend on the edited one.
What it is not
It is not therapy.
It does not treat illness, it does not replace clinical care, and it does not go looking through your childhood for a cause. It works forward. If what you need is therapy, you will be told so plainly and pointed somewhere better.
How it works
This one does not need the house.
It happens on a call, and only on a call. Everything else in this house needs the room you are lying in. This does not, which means it is the one thing here you can do from another city, another country, or a hotel between two meetings.
It is not added on to the silent work, and the silent work is not turned into a conversation. They are two different things, and you choose the one you came for. Many people only ever use one.
An hour is the usual shape. It runs shorter or longer when it needs to. The clock is not what you came for.
One to one · By call · Around an hour · Fee on request
Before you decide
The first call is free.
Before any of this costs you anything, there is a call. You say what is going on. Kilian says whether he is the right person for it, and if he is not, he says who might be.
Nothing is sold on that call. You are not asked to decide at the end of it, and you will not be followed up twice. If it is right, you will know without being persuaded.
No charge · No obligation